Archive for the 'Being gay' Category

Remembering Lawrence King

3 April 2008

On the national annual Day of Silence, students observe a vow of silence to bring attention to bullying and harassment of LGBT students. This year’s Day of Silence — 25 April, 2008 — will be dedicated to the memory of Lawrence King.

GLSEN -- Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network -- Remember Lawrence King

Click the picture to read the announcement from the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN): California Middle School Student Murdered in School Because of Sexual Orientation.

The terms “homosexual” and “sexual orientation”

20 February 2008

We need to be aware that the concepts “homosexual” and “sexual orientation” are modern, and perhaps Western.

I don’t feel that recognizing this has anything to do with essentialism versus social construction. One is not arguing the fact that people throughout history have been attracted to their own sex or the fact that this is not a conscious choice for them, but at least feels inborn. Instead it has to to with the linguistic and cultural concepts that different cultures offer, the patterns of behavior that can be referred to simply in a word or two, without complicated, esoteric explanations.

The Greeks and the Romans had different concepts for it than we do, and anyone “homosexual” in the modern sense must have had a difficult time explaining themselves — even to themselves. Read the rest of this entry »

Kai Wright’s “Drifting Toward Love”

17 February 2008

Book Review

Kai Wright, Drifting Toward Love: Black, Brown, Gay, and Coming of Age on the Streets of New York

Kai Wright,
Drifting Toward Love: Black, Brown, Gay,
and Coming of Age on the Streets of New York

Beacon Press, Boston, 2008
ISBN 978-0-8070-7968-3

This is an important book.

Why would I — a dead, white male, a baby boomer — say that about a book from a culture so totally different?

Because when I was a teenager, growing up gay in a white slum in Buffalo, the Stonewall Riots were some 10 years off in the future and inaccessible to me — and, anyway, they were unthinkable. I drifted, lost, making bad choices and acting destructively — of myself and of others.

Kai Wright writes about black and brown kids today in Brooklyn. You might think they’d have a big advantage — with one of the most vibrant, openly gay cultures in the world right next to them in Manhattan, only a subway ride away. But in their social reality, the white, liberated gay culture might as well be on the other side of the world for all the good it would do them in terms of providing scenarios they can choose from. It’s as inaccessible to them now, for a different reason, as it was to me then. Read the rest of this entry »

Al Gore — on gay rights and gay marriage

25 January 2008

I have no comment on this. There’s no way I could improve it. It says just what needs to be said — succinctly. precisely.

I am preparing other posts about being gay, including analyses of recent scientific work whose authors have shared copies of their published articles. But, right now, I’d like to help publicize Al Gore’s statement without pretending I can add to its exactness.

. . . Actually, though, I do have one comment about Al Gore. It’s what I’ve thought for years, and even far more so since the Nobel Prize. There’s been a link to algore.com in my sidebar all along. I mean, I have to support one of the few politicians who’s in contact with reality — and, in his case, on many issues. But now, Gore’s statement on gays makes my sense of conviction about him as complete as my sense of loss: “Why isn’t this man our president?Read the rest of this entry »

Shelter — pictures by Lucky Michaels of homeless LGBTQ youth at home

14 January 2008


Untitled, 2007, Courtesy of Lucky Michaels (click picture to enlarge)

The picture above was taken by Lucky Michaels, a photographer and also a counselor at Sylvia’s Place, located within the Metropolitan Community Church of New York. The shelter (named after Queer rights activist Sylvia Rivera) is a temporary safe haven for homeless LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender, Queer) youth.

I find this picture pretty startling — rich in inexplicable, incongruous juxtapositions. It shows a homeless young man, at home — for the time being — apparently in bed.

Where is it that he’s at home? In a public, sterile space where nobody could be at home but people are trying. Judging from his expression, he lives there. I won’t mention the impossible, necessary, Christmas tree in the background. Read the rest of this entry »

Socrates — running his hand through Phaedo’s hair

5 December 2007

Plato’s Phaedo is one of the hardest dialogues for me to understand. The way some commentators present it seems uncompromisingly, patronizingly self-righteous. Yet, I think there are more humanistic ways to understand it. Read the rest of this entry »

Heroes — Luchino Visconti

26 November 2007



Count Don Luchino Visconti di Modrone

Here’s a sampling of my favorite Luchino Visconti films. Read the rest of this entry »

Allen Ginsberg’s “America”

18 November 2007

Note: this post is an extension of my About page.


Allen Ginsberg in 1960 by Mario Jorrin/Getty Images

YouTube: Photomontage of Ginsberg and his “america” music by Tom Waits. Incredibly moving.

America
by
Allen Ginsberg

America I’ve given you all and now I’m nothing.
America two dollars and twentyseven cents January 17, 1956.
I can’t stand my own mind. Read the rest of this entry »

Michelangelo’s “Slave Awakening”

13 November 2007

michelangelo_slave.jpg Robert Snyder made two inspiring documentaries about Michelangelo—and films about others including Buckminster Fuller, Claudio Arrau and Willem de Kooning.

I’ve been haunted by his 1989 documentary Michelangelo: Self Portrait. Read the rest of this entry »